Take for example the person who has a car fetish and they use their car to put themselves in the spotlight. Or the shoe lover who loves shoes more than the average person would deem appropriate. For the objectum-sexual, the car or shoe itself, all by itself and nothing else, that item is the desired sexual partner. They have sex and relationships with them, and are as passionate and devoted as with any human relationship.
Last week while channel surfing I stumbled upon a documentary profiling Erika La Tour Eiffel. She married the Eiffel Tower–then went as far as changing her name to that of her spouse’s, after her in person with friends present ceremony. Besides the fact that that alone is startlingly fascinating, she’s in love with the Eiffel Tower the woman. The former soldier and world class archer’s previous serious relationship was with Lance-her bow. An objectum-sexual bisexual-who knew they existed?!
All objectum-sexuals, attribute clear genders to their partner so there are heterosexual and homosexual objectum-sexuals as well.
Captivated by the program but still truthfully disturbed by it, I learned about the a few other women including the Swedish woman who married the Berlin wall in 1979 (She also legally changed her name. She took the name Mauer, which is the German word for wall.). And the tidbit that many objectum-sexuals are approving of polygamy. Erika La Tour Eiffel is also in love with and is maintaining a relationship with her friend Mrs. Mauer’s husband the Berlin wall. (Try to keep up-Erika is also having a torrid affair with the Golden Gate Bridge-who’s also male! This objectum-sexual bisexual gets around…)
When speaking of her loves and lovers (yes the objects) she claims how “Our love is no different than the love between two beings.” (I’m not in love with anyone I can speak telepathically to, as objectum-sexuals claim to be-but that’s just me) As mentioned before she’s not alone in her lifestyle choice. She sought out, and found a circle of like-minded souls.
Like 41-year-old Joachim perhaps, who says he gradually realized that “you can reveal yourself to an object partner in an intimate way, in a way that you would never reveal yourself to any other person.” That includes the desire to “experience sexuality together,” he adds.
http://www.objectum-sexuality.org/
http://community.livejournal.com/objectumsexuals/profile
Experts are attempting to interpret the phenomenon, looking into connections with Asperger’s and autism without avail. How does someone realize they are in fact this orientation…(I wonder if they “come out” to friends and family. Can you imagine that conversation??)
The retired professor and former director of Frankfurt University’s Institute for Sexual Science, Volkmar Sigusch, is one person who believes he has unraveled the mysteries of objectophilia. He has extensively probed this attraction to objects as part of his research into various forms of modern “neo-sexuality.” The sexologist views this inclination as proof of his hypothesis that society is increasingly drifting into asexuality: “More and more people either openly declare or can be seen to live without any intimate or trusting relationship with another person,” Sigusch says, adding that cities are populated by an entire army of socially isolated individuals: “Singles, isolated people, cultural sodomites, many perverts and sex addicts.”
While you ponder all of what I just brought to your attention, I’ll leave you with the last bit tidbit I’m sure many of you are wondering. How do they have sex? Well, when the object can be kept at home-I’m sure you can use your own imagination to figure it out–Mrs. Eiffel Tower explains that while her lovers currently are large public buildings, and fixtures, it’s the miniature replicas that keep her sexually satisfied.
All of this kind of creeps me out, but I’m not judging-as long as no one’s getting hurt or arrested for indicent exposure-who am I to say their way of life is wrong? Now people that rock the beastailitly boat-they are WRONG AND DISGUSTING! I’m just saying…
Posted by Maddie Banks
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This is a rather interesting article. The Subject matter is not surprising. I wondered if the fear or lack of being loved plays a part.
my first love was a tree.